If you’re anything like Mr Style and I, you had difficulty with this one.  We don’t have one specific song that defined ‘us’ or that we specifically remember as being ‘that’ special moment.  What Mr Style relates songs to is what meaningful songs he remembers I say I love and he’ll make sure it’s playing at the right time.  At least he pays attention!  We have our ceremony song worked out as we aren’t using the wedding march (and I can’t at this stage say what song it is as it’ll give it away to friends that read my blogs) and we aren’t doing the first dance thing as it really is outdated for us,  but if you truly are stuck with this, here are some websites, tips and ideas to help you along.

You’d be surprised …. you may see a song on the websites that really remind you of that ‘uh huh’ moment but you’re under so much pressure to choose a ceremony or first dance song that it totally slips your mind.

NY City Weddings is a great site as it breaks up the wedding day into the different instances where specific music is needed i.e. ceremony, cocktail hour, first dance, father and daughter dance, cake cutting, etc.

http://www.nycityweddings.com/planning/wedding_songs/?Display=Ceremony

http://www.sa-venues.com/weddings/planning/music-details.htm

http://wedding-venues.all4women.co.za/articles-songs.php

http://www.secretweddingsongs.com/

http://www.wedalert.com/songs/firstdance/index.asp