Tell me, tell me, tell me Oh, who wrote the book of love?I’ver got to know the answer:Was it someone form above? – The Monotones

Love is vast and undefined. Love is relative.

When two people fall in love unexplained happens and the world and all its complexities cease to exist. There is only one person that matters. Love fills our souls with hope and ideals. Love makes us want to be better, to do good things. Love is a gift which comes once in a life time and asks only to be cherished and handled with care.

Love is made up of many stages and at each stage it manifests iteself differently.

Yet at every stage, love promises greatness. And if we are open to it, it will provide fulfillment and joy beoynd our imagination. This means being unselfish with your emotions and feelings. So many people are afraid of giving up all that they have to another person for the fear or getting back less, or being hurt. Love does not hurt, and love gives back. Love can only be mutual, there is no other way. If both people love each other and put the their parnter’s needs first, forgetting their own selfish desires, only greatness can come from such relationship.

This is not to ignore the fact that trials will come. The people in love will have to overcome obstacles along the way. Their relationship will grow through hard times. Yet, it is the presence of love that will pull them through.

When we master the ability to love another person unconditionally, without any regard for what we receive, the ultimate paradox occurs: We will receive everything! The ultimate irony of life is that when we give unconditionally, we get it all unconditionally.

True love is a reward at the end of this journey. It has to be earned, discovered and worked for. This is a gradual process that happens over years, circumstances and every day life.